Rachel Bhagwan
Protection of the Family
The Issue
Over the past few years, a troubling new trend at the international human rights level is being observed, where discourses on ‘protecting the family’ are being employed to defend violations committed against family members, to bolster and justify impunity, and to restrict equal rights within and to family life.
The campaign to "Protect the Family" is driven by ultra-conservative efforts to impose "traditional" and patriarchal interpretations of the family, and to move rights out of the hands of family members and into the institution of ‘the family’.
“Protection of the Family” efforts stem from:
- rising traditionalism,
- rising cultural, social and religious conservatism and
- sentiment hostile to women’s human rights, sexual rights, child rights and the rights of persons with non-normative gender identities and sexual orientations.
Since 2014, a group of states have been operating as a bloc in human rights spaces under the name “Group of Friends of the Family”, and resolutions on “Protection of the Family” have been successfully passed every year since 2014.
This agenda has spread beyond the Human Rights Council. We have seen regressive language on “the family” being introduced at the Commission on the Status of Women, and attempts made to introduce it in negotiations on the Sustainable Development Goals.
Our Approach
AWID works with partners and allies to jointly resist “Protection of the Family” and other regressive agendas, and to uphold the universality of human rights.
In response to the increased influence of regressive actors in human rights spaces, AWID joined allies to form the Observatory on the Universality of Rights (OURs). OURs is a collaborative project that monitors, analyzes, and shares information on anti-rights initiatives like “Protection of the Family”.
Rights at Risk, the first OURs report, charts a map of the actors making up the global anti-rights lobby, identifies their key discourses and strategies, and the effect they are having on our human rights.
The report outlines “Protection of the Family” as an agenda that has fostered collaboration across a broad range of regressive actors at the UN. It describes it as: “a strategic framework that houses “multiple patriarchal and anti-rights positions, where the framework, in turn, aims to justify and institutionalize these positions.”
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Féministes soudanaises : « une révolution au sein de la révolution »
« J’ai subi des violences sexuelles, des blessures physiques et d’autres formes de violence lorsque je manifestais sur les lignes de front. Mais je ne m’arrêterai jamais, tant et aussi longtemps que nous n’aurons pas de régime civil au Soudan. Nous devons arrêter la militarisation de l’État. Nos corps ne doivent plus être traités comme des champs de bataille »
déclarait Amal*, une manifestante de 23 ans**
Les femmes sont à la tête de la révolution au Soudan depuis quatre ans. Leur leadership ne s’est pas limité à la rue : elles étaient la force motrice de la résistance continue à tous les niveaux. Les femmes et les jeunes féministes sont devenues la conscience alerte du mouvement pour le changement et la démocratisation au Soudan. Dès la première manifestation contre l’ancien régime dans la ville d’Aldmazein, dans la région en conflit du Nil Bleu, le 13 décembre 2018, de jeunes écolières sont devenues les porte-voix réclamant la fin de 30 années de dictature militaire et de Frères musulmans.
Le mouvement féministe mené par de jeunes femmes âgées de 16 à 35 ans a créé une révolution au sein de la révolution incessante depuis quatre ans au Soudan. Les voix des jeunes femmes qui occupent l’espace dans les rues, sur les réseaux sociaux, au sein de la société civile et des organisations politiques sont suffisamment fortes pour avoir remodelé l’opinion publique et questionné les normes sociales. Les discussions sur les violences sexuelles et basées sur le genre et les tabous de la violence domestique et des processus décisionnels dominés par les hommes sont devenues des débats courants pour la première fois dans l’histoire du Soudan. Les équipes de football féminines, les femmes porte-parole de comités de la résistance et les syndicats professionnels dirigés par des femmes sont quelques-uns des faits saillants de la nouvelle vague du mouvement féministe au Soudan. Des jeunes femmes se définissant fièrement et publiquement comme féministes est le gain le plus important, dans un pays dirigé depuis trois décennies par un islam fondamentaliste. De jeunes hommes soutenant l’activisme féministe et s’identifiant eux-mêmes comme féministes est un autre progrès qu’il convient de souligner.
Ce progrès n’est pas sans coût, tout comme il n’est pas parfait. Les activistes féministes, les groupes et les activistes se retrouvent face aux difficultés typiques rencontrées dans les contextes conservateurs et affectés par des conflits. Mais l’impact du mouvement des jeunes féministes au Soudan mérite d’être encensé. Dépasser les obstacles internes des différences de culture, de religion et des conflits historiques est un défi en soi, que les jeunes féministes au Soudan semblent relever activement. La création d’écoles féministes au Darfour et dans le Kordofan révèle la trajectoire unique du travail des jeunes féministes au Soudan, dont nous pouvons tirer des enseignements.
Il n’est pas possible de nommer les jeunes femmes à la tête de ces efforts et les groupes de femmes actives sur le terrain, du fait des nombreuses préoccupations sécuritaires suite au coup d’État militaire toujours en cours. Mais leur résilience, leur force et leur courage devront figurer dans les livres d’histoire. Ces jeunes femmes audacieuses à la tête de la résistance dans les rues, derrière leurs écrans, dans différentes professions et sur différents terrains d’activisme façonnent l’avenir du Soudan. Les jeunes féministes au Soudan créent de nouveaux espaces pour que des récits et des discours féministes restructurent la distribution du pouvoir, dans ses aspects politiques, économiques et sociaux.
Malgré l’immensité de la violence, la résurgence d’un islam fondamentaliste, la militarisation et la réduction des espaces civiques, les activistes féministes au Soudan restent ancrées dans leurs sororités. Elles demeurent une incroyable source d’inspiration pour les mouvements féministes à travers le monde.
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* Amal est un pseudonyme afin de protéger la jeune activiste citée.
** Le Soudan vit une révolution constante depuis 2018. Une nouvelle vague a démarré après le coup d’État militaire du 25 octobre 2021.
Ayanda Denge
“I am a wonder… Therefore I have been born by a mother! As I begin to stutter, my life has been like no other…” - Ayanda Denge (read the whole poem below)
Ayanda Denge was a transwomxn, sex worker, activist, poet. She was Xhosa, from Port Elizabeth in the Eastern Cape of South Africa. After travelling through different cities of the country, she moved to Cape Town.
As a committed and fervent social justice activist, she fought for the rights of sex workers, trans persons, and for those of people living with HIV and AIDS. She was also a motivational speaker on cancer awareness, and campaigned for affordable and social housing, especially for poor and working-class people. Ayanda stood tall as a mountain against different and often abusive faces of discrimination.
“Being transgender is not a double dose, but it’s a triple dose of stigmatisation and discrimination. You are discriminated against for your sexual identity, you are discriminated against for your work, and you are discriminated against for your HIV status.” - Ayanda Denge, 2016
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“From us, from our regional head office, to SWEAT where I sit on the board, to Sisonke, a movement of sex workers in Cape Town. We all amalgamate, we have one cry and it’s a cry that is recognised internationally by international sex workers. We want decriminalisation of sex work.” - Ayanda Denge, 2016
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“We cannot separate the safety of women and LGBTQI people living in the occupation from the refusal by the Western Cape Provincial Government to turn the electricity and water back on at Ahmed Kathrada House.
The house is pitch black at night. We need lights to keep each other safe. It is as if the Province wishes to punish poor and working class people, whose only crime is that we needed a home. While they may disagree with our reasons for occupying, they should be ashamed of themselves for putting politics before the safety and dignity of residents of this city.
Rest in Peace comrade Ayanda Denge, we shall remember you as we carry the torch forward in the struggle for decent well-located housing.”
Poem by Ayanda:
I am a wonder…
Therefore I have been born by a mother!
As I begin to stutter,
My life has been like no other.
Born in pain
Nourished by rain
For me to gain
Was living in a drain.
As I shed a tear
I stand up and hold my spear.
Voices echo, do not fear
Challenges within a year,
Challenges of hurt are on my case;
Community applauds as they assume I have won my race;
But in reality my work strides at a tortoise pace;
On bended knee I bow and ask for grace.
For the Lord
Is my Sword;
To remind humanity
That he provides sanity.
Why Lord am I this wonder?
The Lord answers me with the rain and thunder,
For questioning my father
Who has in the book of lambs
A name called Ayanda.
From the streets my life was never sweet
The people I had to meet;
At times I would never greet;
Even though I had to eat;
I’d opt to take a bow
Rather than a seat
Listen to the poem in Ayanda’s voice
“For my life represents that of a lotus flower, that out of murky and troubled waters I bloomed to be beautiful and strong...” - Ayanda Denge, watch and listen
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